Think about it like this. In every show, there is the lead and the understudy. Everyone knows the lead. They respect the lead and they need the lead. After all, the lead is needed to complete the show. Then there is the understudy, important to the show but only at the shows convenience. Only when the lead isn’t there, the understudy is needed. That’s when the understudy is appreciated. We’ll maybe not even appreciated, maybe just wanted. In any case, it’s like this. There is a woman in a mans life – his lead. That’s his girlfriend. Always respected and needed, wanted and appreciated. But then there are the understudies of life. The understudies are merely the “hookups” and the “almost girlfriends”. And these understudies my friends, they are nothing more than a woman who is there when it is convenient for the man. Don’t be an understudy. Find a man who wants to make you his lead.